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Would You Like Some OCD with That?

I have quirks. Little things that some might say are OCD tendencies. Unlike Jenny, author of “The Devil in the Details,” they are not enough to bring my life to a grinding halt. They are just … strange.

– Whenever I get gas, I absolutely must end on a quarter of a dollar amount. $21.25, $21.50, $21.75, or $22.00. I can’t stop the pump at $21.63, ever.

– The margarine, butter, cream cheese, peanut butter, or anything else similar to that, must be level across the top. Smooth. No huge knife gouges into it. I will take the time to smooth it out if someone creates a huge hole in it. I can’t stand looking at it until it is fixed.

– When I’m at a restaurant that allows you to get your own drink, I have to get my Coke from the Coke tap furthest to the right. If there is only one tap, I’m fine. But if there are two, I have to use the one on the right. Always.

I’m sure there are more, but as I read Devil in the Details, I tried to focus on mine to see what issues I had. I told you mine … now it’s your turn to tell me yours!

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The Devil in the Details…

Devil in the Details : Scenes from an Obsessive Girlhood Do you ever read something and wish throughout the whole book that you could like it more? That was how I felt through most of Devil in the Details : Scenes from an Obsessive Girlhood by Jenny Traig. I liked the book, but I wanted to like it more.

I think part of the problem for me stemmed from the cover art. I know that may sound strange, but my first thought when I received the book was, “Wheeee! ChickLit!” When I was first contacted about The Virtual Book Tour, I was told it was a autobiography, so I knew it wasn’t, but I’m a sucker for good ChickLit. The cover is cute and spunky and has that feel about it. Other people that have seen the book at my house this past month have said the same thing, so I know it’s not just me.

Then there was the matter of the descriptions on the back cover, which also lead me into the ChickLit reading mode: “Devil in the Details is hilarious, frightening, good-natured, and deeply moving all at once, a compulsively readable comic memoir that combines the bizarre best of Roz Chast and Dostoyevsky.”

I didn’t find it to be a comic memoir. Parts of it made me laugh, don’t get me wrong. Most of it made me feel very sad though. Sad that people get wrapped up in obsessive behavior. Scared that as a mother, my own child could someday be so wrapped up in obsessive/compulsive behavior that he couldn’t function in normal society. Not likely, but as he is reaching 13, the age when a lot of Jenny’s issues reached a new height of OCD, well – it’s a fear. (Hey, I never claimed to not have issues all my own.) I felt sympathy for Jenny’s parents, and how hard it must have been to cope with a child so overwhelmed with scrupulosity – where religious rules cast a shadow on everything she did, in a very crazy way.

To sum it up, the book takes us on a journey through Jenny’s teens, where she starts off dealing with annorexia, but moves on to scrupulosity, “a hyper-religious form of obsessive-compulsive disorder.” Basically, Jenny was Jewish, raised in a mixed religion household (Jewish and Catholic). Without any formal religious training, she finds her way to the religious laws of the Old Testament – and makes them her own. In a very, very extreme way. No longer following true Jewish customs, she finds herself having issues with where to sit, what to eat, washing her hands in an extreme ritual manner, and every aspect of her life regulated by the religious guidelines she has set for herself. Her life is crippled because of the scrupulosity, and she struggles to follow her own strict rules in the world as we know it.

I think that my mindset throughout the entire book was that it was going to be even more amusing, hilarious, side-splitting laughter inducing than it was. I will read this book again, trying not to think of it from that angle, and hopefully I will find more humor in it the second time around. For now, it was good – but not what I expected. It was much more thought provoking for me than it was comic.

There is some truth to the jacket liner notes – reading this book was heartbreaking for me. Maybe OCD is an issue that I am just overly sensitive to? Who knows. It is a fast read, and there are moments of amusement – especially the “Interstitial” sections, which contain informative essays on things like the “Guide to Proper Hand-washing Technique” and “My Sister’s Room is the Gateway to Death: a Two-column Proof.” It is a good book, and I would still recommend it – especially if the inner workings of an OCD mind are something you find interesting.

The fine print: This post is a part of The Virtual Book Tour, coordinated by Kevin Smokler. If you are interested in other reviews of this book, please visit the other sites in the tour, listed on my previous post or on the Virtual Book Tour site.

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Required Reading…

I am currently finishing up my review for the The Virtual Book Tour and will be posting it later this morning. This time around, we are hosting Jenny Traig and reviewing her book, Devil in the Details : Scenes from an Obsessive Girlhood.

After I finish up my review, I will be sharing some of my obsessions – but I don’t like to think of them as obsessions – aren’t they really just quirks? Yeah. Quirks. I like to think of them as quirks.

Please check out the other participants today in the Virtual Book Tour:
About.com Contemporary Lit Guide
Accidental Julie
All About George
Brain Dump
Ephemera
Epistemographer
Metagrrl
Mighty Girl
One Sweet Nothing
Pamie, Author-to-Author
Sooz
The Elegant Variation
The Heather Show
Velveteen Rabbi
Written Road
Zulkey

The VBT is coordinated by the always fabulous Kevin Smokler. Enjoy!

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Turning Japanese…

I have this terrible (and slightly inaccurate) reputation of being a picky eater. I personally don’t think I am as picky as some people I know – I just know what I want and I’m not afraid to ask for it. Just the way I like it.

Kathy & I are in Austin right now for a Stampin’ Up! meeting that we have tomorrow. We’re staying at her sister’s house for the weekend, so after we arrived tonight we all went out to dinner. Kathy’s sister suggested a Japanese restaurant, and Kathy had already asked if I was ok with that. Being the not-so-picky eater that I am, I agreed to go there.

See, to me, it’s one thing to be a picky eater as long as you are gracious enough to go to restaurants you normally wouldn’t like without complaining. There is nothing that I hate more than someone that complains about the restaurant the group picked. I didn’t complain. We went and ate Japanese food.

For those of you that I have had the pleasure of dining with … be impressed by the list of what I ate for dinner tonight (you’re going to be stunned!):
– Gyutataki – slices of medium-rare grilled ribeye in lemon ponzu sauce (it was a toss up between that and the Beef Negimaki and the Scallop Batayaki – Scallops! I considered scallops over beef!)
– Edamame – broiled green soy beans
– Asparagus Yaki – ok, no shock there, I love asparagus. This was sauteed and served with a great sauce

And… drumroll please…
– Two “tastes” of Kathy’s Smoked Salmon sushi! I ATE SUSHI!

I think that from now on, no one should be allowed to tease me about being a picky eater. All the naysayers have been proved wrong! I ate Japanese food – including sushi – and liked it! The statute for giving me crap about this has run out, and I have the photographs to prove it!

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Let the World Domination Commence…

You guys thought I was kidding last week when I said I was working on my plans to take over the world, didn’t you? Well, I wasn’t. Nope, not at all.

World domination will now begin … Blogomania has partnered up with Moxie Design Studio to bring a little Moxie everywhere.

I am totally stoked about working with the Moxie GirlsKathy and Joelle have been nothing but fabulous to work with, and I’m excited about working with Julie, Mel, Christina and Taughnee!

Holy crap though … Joelle didn’t say anything before about how I had to streak for initiation. Crap. Hopefully they will let me wear my tiara while I run.

By the way, nothing at Blogomania has changed; the doors are still open, no one is going anywhere. (Although I’m not offering design anymore – no time with hosting!) We’re just expanding things out into the world of Moxie!

I’m so excited – I’ve been bouncy around for a week now, waiting to share this with the world! Wheeeeeee!!! I’m officially a Moxie Girl!