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Happy 8 Years and 1 Week Anniversary!

I read a quote the other day, and it really sums up what I’ve been thinking this past week since Mike & I had our wedding anniversary last Tuesday. (Yeah, I’m late in writing this. But it required some deep thought. Oh, and some time to sit down and write it.)

This is a relationship’s real purpose: to serve the mutual growth & soulful expression of each individual. – Marie Forleo

I look back over the past 10 years of our life since we met, and especially the 8 years since we were married in 2004, and I see so much change in both of us. A lot of growth.

If the 7 year itch was an itch anywhere, it wasn’t in our marriage, but it was in the rest of my life. We bought a new house. We waited 6 long months for the old house to sell. I’ve made huge changes in my photography business, and instead of weddings being my primary focus and boudoir photography being secondary, now it is all about working with the Hot Mamas and boudoir & contemporary beauty photography.

Over the past two years, I feel like I’ve become more comfortable in my own skin. I’ve lost 24 lbs. – in part because I was ready to do it. It is hard to explain, but when you like yourself more, like what you are doing more, you’re just finally more motivated to change.

But the thing that amused me the most was realizing at Joseph & Dena’s wedding (my brother-in-law and his now wife) that Mike has learned a lot about photography over the years. He still isn’t a photographer, but he knows so much about it. He knew how I would have photographed the wedding if I had been working at it. He knew what shots I would have taken, how I felt about things, and the list goes on and on. (I would have gifted them with photography for a wedding present, but I had a wedding in Houston the day before and flew in to Boston on a 7:30am flight. As it was, I got to the area at 3:20pm and the ceremony was at 4:30 – any delays and I would have missed it, so I just couldn’t take the risk!)

While I was in Paris last month, I realized what a foodie I have become. I’m still a picky eater, but I eat things now I wouldn’t eat 8-10 years ago. I was super giddy when we went to the Cristal Room Baccarat for lunch because I knew that Mike would have been in heaven there, and I decided I will take him back there someday. The food was just so very, very French! Le Grand Colbert was even more amazing for me – and to be honest, a lot more food on the menu that I would eat – so I’ll have to take him there too someday!

(Witness the beauty of my 18 Euro Crème Brulée from the Cristal Room. A $23 dessert. Crazy? Yes. AMAZING?!? Yes. And I had already eaten lunch at the hotel in my room, so I got to splurge on dessert!)

Creme Brulee from the Cristal Room Baccarat

It is hard for me to travel without Mike, because I’ve actually caught myself asking other people that I’m with, “Will I like that?” He knows me that well, he knows what flavors I will like and what I won’t.

To me, that sums up what a marriage is about. Learning about one another. Supporting one another. Knowing each other’s interests, likes, passions. Learning from one another. Letting the other person explore their passions. I like knowing that through me, he is a little bit of a photographer and can see things in a different light, and through him I am a bit more adventurous and can savor all that life has to offer.

He makes me a better person, and I’m so grateful for that. More than words can express. Happy Anniversary, Mike!

By Christine

Christine is an Avenger of Sexiness. Her Superpower is helping Hot Mamas grow their Confidence by rediscovering their Beauty. She lives in the Heights in Houston, Texas, works as a boudoir photographer, and writes about running a Business of Awesome. In her spare time, she loves to knit, especially when she travels. She & her husband Mike have a food blog at Spoon & Knife.

8 replies on “Happy 8 Years and 1 Week Anniversary!”

Happy belated anniversary to you two!! And I knew the Grand Colbert sounded familiar! I saw it in the movie Something’s Gotta Give with Diane Keaton & Jack Nicholson and that is where we had Christmas Day dinner when we spent the holiday in Paris back in 2004. It’s is a beautiful place!

Thank you, Elaine! Yes, the same one from the movie — and I didn’t realize it was the place you had gone to for Christmas Day dinner! Too funny! It was fantastic!

In this time of ours when divorce seems like an everyday occurrence, i am happy to know that there are still people like you who maintain a solid and strong relationship bond. Congratulations to you!

Hi Christine! Loved your post.

I have also crossed the seven year itch and trust me i really felt it. Now its more than 9 years things have become pretty smooth. Congratulations on your anniversary, Your post has certainly given me an idea to write about, will be sharing my post with you very soon!

Happy Anniversary! I also believe in marriage and in our second half. I think that in marriage the most important is to know that: if I had it to do over again, I’d choose you. Again.

Happy belated anniversary to both you, I found this post very cute! When we talk about the seven year hitch we all face it (I mean if it is able to survive 7 years!), but after the 7 years it makes the relationship stronger!

It was really interesting read, Now will wait for Myra’s version.. DO let us know when you post it!

That is very sweet Christine, and very relatable. I used to wonder if my marriage would plateau after a few years in. I mean, I just couldn’t understand how a relationship stays interesting after 5 years, etc. But it just keeps going to new places, getting better each year. We are at the 11 year mark, and when I think back to 3 or 4 years, things feel completely different now. We’ve grown as a couple and as individuals. Life is amazing!

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