Where’s the Guy?

Please note, unlike many single women (and unlike my own goals in the past), I do not have anything close to “find a man” on my list of goals. Why? Well, I want to move away from Houston. What is the point of meeting someone that may have reasons and ties to the city that make him want to stay here? More importantly, I have reached a point in my life where I don’t *need* a man. Do I want a relationship someday? Yes. But I am not on a hunt for one – I am quite happy right here where I am at this place in my life, single. I have learned to enjoy the quiet moments alone – because I like me. It took effort for me to learn this, but now that I have – I treasure it. Like me? Heck, I love me. I just have room for improvement!

By Christine

Christine is an Avenger of Sexiness. Her Superpower is helping Hot Mamas grow their Confidence by rediscovering their Beauty. She lives in the Heights in Houston, Texas, works as a boudoir photographer, and writes about running a Business of Awesome. In her spare time, she loves to knit, especially when she travels. She & her husband Mike have a food blog at Spoon & Knife.

8 replies on “Where’s the Guy?”

I think my biggest “resolutions” are to take care of myself this year spiritually and emotionally…I agree with the guy thing…I mean, I would not mind (of course) being in a relationship, but i’d rather take care of fab felicia first 🙂

Move to Chicago, Christine! Hehehe… we could get a large townhouse together! Something like 4 bedrooms so each of us would have our own room and then the two boys would have theirs! Seriously though, I understand your wanting to be around family though. I’ve been thinking about that idea myself lately, however it would involve moving back to Iowa. Outside of family, there is nothing else there. I honestly don’t know anymore if it would make me happier. I mean I haven’t lived there since I was 19!

BTW, how does one become a participant of this resolution project? *stomps feet* No one ever asks me to participate in anything any more 🙁

As a guy I can honestly tell you that women who are happy with themselves are SOOOOO much more attractive than women “on the prowl” for a relationship. It’s too much pressure on us guys 🙂

You could move to Lawrence. I know it’s Kansas, but the fact that I’m here should make it all okay. AND, Lawrence is a university town, so you know… it’ll be good for Jason when he gets a little older. *snort*

yeah, it’s winter everywhere in canada except vancouver….spring has already started there (and I’m not even there to enjoy it!)

but I agree – love you first. don’t settle for less. : )

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