Today is a strange anniversary day. August 31st is always a day that makes me look back at my past. I got married 12 years ago today. (I got divorced in 1993.) So it makes me look back on the past, on the reasons I made choices that I did. I realize how different I am today. This is a good thing.
Today is also the 5 year anniversary of Princess Di’s death. The significance of that is not so much that she died, but that the Insignificant Other & I broke up – one of many times – shortly after the accident. Maybe the night before her funeral? Anyways, he actually proposed to me later in the month, before my birthday. But he would never set a wedding date, and by January, 2001 I gave up. I figured 3+ years was enough time to finally come around.
It’s not so much a day to think of loves lost as it is to think of personal strength gained. I am a better person then I was 12 years ago or even 5 years ago. I am proud of the person that I have become. I’m thankful for the lessons I’ve learned.
8 replies on “An Anniversary…”
Congrats. I know what it’s like. I, personally, really enjoy being single. Yes, there are times when it blows, but overall, I think I value my freedom.
And at least you didn’t waste 10 years with the jerk… Like *some* people.
::looks around innocently:: 😉
You’re better than I am … I waited 6 and a half years. Bitter side note aside, I’m proud of the person you’ve become. *grin*
congrats. 🙂
Self awareness is such a gift! Congratulations on how far you’ve come!
Congratulations on not only moving forward, but being able to recognize it. It always feels like we’ll never recover, only to look back and see how much better we’re doing. Great post!
That is a wonderful way of thinking!
I’m very happy for you!
*hugz*
Hey it’s my wedding anniversary today too (still married after 6 years, must be doing something right!)
August 31 is the day I bought my domain name, two years ago, and I finally passed my road test and received my license on August 30, two years ago. Maybe the end of August is the best time to grow?